Get Outside With Your Kids: Let Them Play!

In a world saturated by schedules, and structured activities and sports, free play becomes a radical act. When kids are given the endless possibilities to roam, imagine, experiment, and wanderโ€”especially outdoorsโ€”they develop in ways far deeper than we could cultivate ourselves.


1. Free Play Is the Best Way to Learn

Free playโ€”play without a pre-set agenda or strict adult directionโ€”is more than โ€œjust having fun.โ€ Itโ€™s a foundational method through which children experiment with their world, test hypotheses, negotiate social dynamics, and integrate new knowledge. In order for kids to really integrate what they are learning into their memory they have to solidify it through their play!

Developmental research backs this: for example, the 30 Reasons Why Free Play Benefits Child Development lists many ways free play literally changes neural pathways, laying groundwork for planning, emotional regulation, problem solving, and more. AAA State of Play

When children engage freelyโ€”especially in a natural outdoor space like a state parkโ€”they test gravity by climbing, experiment with balance by walking on logs, imagine stories between trees, and create their own challenges. That is learning at its purest.

My favorite resource is 1000 Hours Outside, a movement built around the idea of choosing nature time over screen time and stationary education.

Her philosophies have completely changed how we homeschool and what educational values we have at our house. Her interviews from authors help in every aspect of life. Check her out!


2. Childhood Is Not Adult-Led

One of the greatest mistakes well-meaning parents, educators, and caregivers make is to assume childrenโ€™s time must be structured, directed, and supervised closely. But in doing so, we steal their opportunity to lead their own explorations.

Free play is, by definition, child initiated. Children decide what to play, how to play, when to change, and what โ€œrulesโ€ govern their world. This contrast with adult-led lessons or curricula is crucial: if everything is directed, children never get to wrestle with uncertainty, decision making, or self-motivated learning. In fact, one of the hallmarks of free play is that children adapt rules, negotiate with peers, and invent new forms of play midstreamโ€”none of which work when an adult rigidly structures everything.

Often they do end up having disagreements! Thatโ€™s how they learn to navigate a world where cooperation is expected and all ideas deserve a say. In a world full of AI and social media, they need those face-to-face experiences!


3. Kids Need Space to Let Information Sink In

We often assume children must be taught and tested in rapid, frequent doses. But real learning often needs time to percolate. We donโ€™t see the work that our subconscious is doing! Just because you canโ€™t test it does not mean itโ€™s not taking shape. Abstract ideas and concepts need to take root in the background. 

When children are overscheduledโ€”jumping from enrichment class to lessons to homework to practiceโ€”their brains rarely get the slack they need to explore tangents, process discoveries, or notice patterns. Free play, with its expanses of unstructured time, gives them exactly that margin. AND they donโ€™t know they are doing it. That is the most beautiful part!

When children are in nature and they pause by a creek, sit under a tree, watch bugs or birds, or just lean back and stare at the sky, they absorb sensory data, revisit thoughts, test possibilitiesโ€”not because someone told them to, but because their curiosity flows. That incubation is crucial to deeper learning.


4. Creativity Happens Best When Weโ€™re Bored

Every great inventor, artist, or scientist knows: boredom is the spark. When children are forced to fill every minute, they never confront the void from which imagination must grow. Without boredom, we inadvertently micromanage creativity.

Getting bored makes kids actually LOOK for something to do. Unfortunately the easiest way for me to do this with my kids is to say: if I give you something to do, it will be a chore! 

Then magically, they have found something they are interested in! 

When looking to fill a void, problems are actually being solved. They create something where there was literally nothing before. That is part of the problem solving process. Notice what they want and find a way to create what would work!


5. Creative Children Are Smarter Children

Creativity is not just โ€œnice to haveโ€โ€”it correlates with deeper cognitive flexibility, problem solving, divergent thinking, and adaptive intelligence. In other words, creative thinkers are often better at novel situations, resilient in adversity, and more innovative in their future fields.

Studies show that pretend play, for instance, correlates strongly with divergent thinking โ€” the ability to generate many solutions to a problem. AAA State of Play+1 In short: when kids are allowed to imagine, repurpose, and test, they build mental agility.

In todayโ€™s world they need the ability to find creative solutions to the problems they are experiencing!

Many education advocates argue that creativity should be woven into every subject, not left as an โ€œextraโ€โ€”and the only way to maintain that creative edge is to give children repeated access to self-directed, imaginative play. Indeed, thereโ€™s a growing call among early childhood and pedagogical institutions to re-embrace play as central to learning (not a distraction). NAEYC


Happy Kids Who Live Happy Lives

If your goal is to raise children who think deeply, adapt flexibly, and innovate boldly, you must guard and protect their free playโ€”especially outdoors. State and local parks, backyards, art rooms, play rooms, cardboard boxes; let your kids roam paths, make forts, climb hills, sit by creeks, draw, watch insects, dance, and invent their own games.

Go outside and play today!

Check out my favorite reasons to go to Zions with your kids! If you need help getting everything scheduled and organized, check out my printable planner here!

Here are a few direct resources to explore further:

  • National Association for the Education of Young Children (NAEYC) on outdoor play and whole-child development
  • The National Recreation and Park Association on the benefits of parks and outdoor play nrpa.org
  • The Trust for Public Land special report The Power of Parks to Promote Health tpl.org

And of course, you can visit 1000 Hours Outside (the movement I mentioned above) to see how many families are reclaiming childhood by logging green time. They have a great instagram page too!

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